A Note from Beyond the Grave?

Friday, 26 June, 2015 - 12:41 pm


Question of the Week:

URGENT: I am writing to you from my husband's grandmother's funeral. Something weird just happened and I am freaked out. In the middle of the burial, as family and friends were shoveling dirt over the coffin, my husband's kippah fell into the grave. Before anyone could do anything it got covered in dirt and disappeared. It must be a bad omen for him that an article of his clothing got buried. I am still at the cemetery and want to know what we should do. Should we dig it up, or say a prayer? Should I be worried?


The kippah falling into the grave must be a sign from G-d. Everything happens for a reason.

However, there is no need to panic and nothing to worry about. It is not a bad sign and you shouldn't read into it that way. On the contrary, perhaps the buried kippah is G-d telling your husband something he needs to hear:

Your grandmother showered you with love and affection your whole life. And you reciprocated by caring for her with the utmost devotion and loving attention.

Now she is gone, but her love continues. Her wisdom, her warmth, and her strong presence will always hover over her family. She will continue to look after you from above. And you can continue to care for her too.

She no longer needs to be helped in the physical sense. She doesn't need you to go shopping for her, to do her banking, to take her to appointments with the specialist. You can't give her hugs, hold her hand and tell her how much you love her chicken soup. But there is still something you can do for her, something she needs from you.

What she needs from you now is to continue the Jewishness that she passed down to you. What you can do for her now is mitzvos.

Your kippah, your Jewishness, is the love you can still give to your grandmother. It is the one gift that reaches beyond the grave, that the living can give the dead. Her soul, and all the souls of your ancestors that came before her, are waiting to see you continue the unbroken chain of Jewishness, the light of Torah that has been handed down from parents to children, grandparents to grandchildren, right down to you.

The rich traditions your grandmother taught you are like a big delicious cake. It has many layers, added by each generation. Now you need to add your layer to the Jewish cake, and your kippah is the cherry on top. So leave that kippah in the grave. And go and put on another one.

Good Shabbos,

Rabbi Moss 


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Friday, 26 June 2015 | 9 Tammuz 5775

Candle Lighting 4:37 pm

Mincha 4:50 pm

SHIUR: The Kabbalists Speak 5:15 pm

Friday Night Shabbos Service

with Children's Program 6:00-6:50 pm

Followed by Kiddush 


Shabbos, 27 June 2015 | 10 Tammuz 5775

Parshas Chukas 

Chassidism Class 9:00 am

Shabbos Morning Service 10:00 am-12:15 pm

Children's Program 11:00 am

Followed by Kiddush sponsored by Yaakov, Malka and Nisya Laya Richman, in honour of Yaakov's beloved mother Rochel Leah bas Yakov. Her yortziet is 12th Tammuz. A holy day for a holy lady. She was very much loved by all who knew her and greatly missed. May her soul have a very high Aliyah by this dedication to her life.


Mincha 4:05pm

Pirkei Avos Chapter 5

Seudah Shlishis

4:45pm SHIUR: When Is it Moral to Tell a Lie? a study on honesty

Shabbos ends and Maariv 5:36pm 




Sunday 8:00am followed by breakfast and Shiur 9am-9:45am: "The Genius of the Talmud - the philosophy behind Jewish law" (kids creche 8am-9:45am)

Monday-Friday 7:00am

Latest Shema this week 9:29 am



Adam Pisk for 10 Tammuz/ 27 June

Esti Regos for 11 Tammuz/ 28 June

Ethan Klein for 13 Tammuz/ 30 June

Amber Radus for 14 Tammuz/ 1 July



Brian & Arlene Schwartz for 10 Tammuz/ 27 June

Eric & Carol Melman for 13 Tammuz/ 30 June




Tom Moss, Ron Moss, and Kathy Penn for their late mother Bluma Miriam bas Binyomin Zev on 9 Tammuz/ 26 June

Mike Franks for his late mother Rose Franks on 10 Tammuz/ 27 June

Vivien Marnock for her late mother Maryla Glass, Miriam bat Yitzchak on 10 Tammuz/ 27 June

Robert Dabscheck for his late father, Ronald Samuel Dabscheck, Shmuel Hanan ben Yisroel on 11 Tammuz/ 28 June

Tom Meyer for his late step mother, Eva Meyer, Chava bat Avraham on 11 Tammuz/ 28 June

Sam Sharp fror his late father Monty Sharp, Monish ben Zelik Ha'Cohen on 12 Tammuz/ 29 June

Jacqueline Eliovson for her late father Victor Behrman, Avigdor ben Dov Getzel on 14 Tammuz/ 1 July  

Moshe Moses and Adee Moses for their late father Sasoon Moses, Sason Hai ben Mazal on 14 Tammuz/ 1 July

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