Question:
You know me, I always feel guilty about something. Since my mother died, I feel guilty every time I have fun or even go to the hairdresser, as if I have no right to enjoy my life now that her life has ended. I know this isn't healthy but I can't seem to let myself live. Are there any Jewish teachings on this that might help me?
Answer:
The only thing you should feel guilty about is feeling guilty. Not only is it holding you back, it's holding your mother's soul back too.
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